Trauma can involve a single experience, or repeated experiences, which overwhelm an individual’s ability to manage or assimilate the emotions or ideas related to that experience. Traumatic events can happen at any age and can cause long-lasting harm.
Is it trauma? My struggles or experiences weren’t “that bad”.
Traumatic events can occur throughout the lifespan, ranging from early life such as abuse in childhood, to later life experiences that are beyond your control such as a serious accident or a tragic loss.
Trauma may a single event, such as an assault, car wreck, or divorce, but it can also be a result of a long term pattern such as being bullied, experiencing childhood neglect, childhood sexual, physical, or emotional abuse.
A neurological and structured therapeutic approach focused on reprocessing trauma. Utilizing bilateral stimulation (eye movements or tapping), while focusing on specific memories emotions or sensations activates the brain’s problem solving process and re-engages the brain’s natural ability to heal, This form of therapy is more neurological based, meaning detailed accounts of traumatic events or experiences are not necessary for healing.
EFT
Emotionally Focused Therapy is a form of talk therapy that focuses on the client’s underlying emotional needs. All humans are wired for attachment, meaning attachment is a basic need no different than the need for food, water and shelter. Emotional needs include nurturing, safety, belonging, and appreciation. Trauma often occurs within interpersonal dynamics- siblings, parents, romantic partners, or strangers- resulting in some level of betrayal of trust and safety within other individuals. If this occurs it can cause a significant rupture within the individual and their relationships resulting in one or more emotional needs no longer being met resulting in isolation and emotional distress. EFT can help individuals identify and get in touch with their emotional needs and empower them to seek connection.
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